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  <title>Journey to Ixtlan</title>
  <subtitle>(are we there yet?)</subtitle>
  <author>
    <name>kokopelle</name>
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  <updated>2014-09-23T03:12:35Z</updated>
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    <title>Words I Don't Like</title>
    <published>2014-09-23T03:12:35Z</published>
    <updated>2014-09-23T03:12:35Z</updated>
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    <category term="hate"/>
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    <content type="html">I'm not one of these people who believe each and every word has power.  I do believe that many of them do, and for this reason I really don't like when people say &amp;ldquo;I hate X&amp;rdquo; and &amp;ldquo;goddamn Y&amp;rdquo;.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why?  Firstly, hate is supposed to be a very powerful emotion.  Dictionary.com says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;ldquo;feel intense or passionate dislike for (someone)&amp;rdquo;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, when someone says &amp;ldquo;I hate it when it rains&amp;rdquo;, do they really have an intense or passionate dislike?  I also dislike the word &amp;ldquo;hate&amp;rdquo; because it is the basis of so many terrible acts.  There is no accident that a subset of actions are called &amp;ldquo;hate crimes&amp;rdquo;.   I would prefer that people say &amp;ldquo;I don't like X&amp;rdquo;.  The word &amp;ldquo;dislike&amp;rdquo; is defined as:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;ldquo;to regard with displeasure, antipathy, or aversion&amp;rdquo;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now this I can understand... I can have displeasure that it is raining!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second phrase I really don't like is &amp;ldquo;goddamn Y&amp;rdquo;.  Goodness... does the user really want God to damn the target of the phrase?  Dictionary.com says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;ldquo;used as an exclamation of any strong feeling, especially of disgust or irritation, and often followed by it&amp;rdquo;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That doesn't sound so bad.  Maybe this is a case where I believe words have power.  I believe that calling the retribution of the deity of you choice upon your family dog for jumping on you is too much.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Words... sometimes a cigar is just a cigar, but words like hate and goddamn don't have a place in my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=kokopelle&amp;ditemid=455069" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/&gt; comments</content>
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