https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/ Journey to Ixtlan - Dreamwidth Studios Sat, 19 Apr 2014 03:45:10 GMT LiveJournal / Dreamwidth Studios kokopelle personal https://v2.dreamwidth.org/6164738/2014669 https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/ 100 94 https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/412663.html Sat, 19 Apr 2014 03:45:10 GMT https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/412663.html A friends recently posted a meme about how negative feedback sticks to us, no matter how much positive feedback we may get.&nbsp; <br /><br />I said that our not helpful rational side says, &quot;we are listening to the criticism because we want to be a better person, and feedback is feedback!&quot;. Ack. And then there is the time the &quot;jerk&quot; comment comes from a person we respect and./or look up to and/or want to emulate. That does compounds the issues fo the &quot;duly receiving cricicism&quot;.<br /><br /><img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=kokopelle&ditemid=412663" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/> comments https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/412663.html criticism feedback contemplative public 0 https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/373264.html Mon, 25 Nov 2013 04:11:59 GMT https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/373264.html Sometimes the feedback from dreams can be productive and sometimes it is just our insecurities speaking. This morning the insecure part was speaking up. I've focused on complimenting people and my dream this morning turned the practice on it's head. My dream tried to tell me that people were being turned off by my compliments. This can happen, but by and far I need to step out of my introvert shell and acknowledge others. Yep...<br /><br /><img src="https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=kokopelle&ditemid=373264" width="30" height="12" alt="comment count unavailable" style="vertical-align: middle;"/> comments https://kokopelle.dreamwidth.org/373264.html feedback interpretation dream awake public 0