kokopelle: Black Cat (cat black)
The poem “People Walked” was inspired by a meme that contained the words, “I was waiting for you without knowing it. I’ve waited for you for years.”


People Walked

I was waiting until the time
that purpose stated why it was
that people walked into my life

a question mark is applied
to the intention that god planned
when hello asks for more

each mystery is then guessed
with assumptions incorrect
for the bulk of faces met

with the span of ‘hate’ to ‘love’
each emotion possible
with some preferred nonetheless

thus every journey is begun
without knowing the outcome
when relations are resolved

still the wheel will have its laugh
a chuckle found at my expense
denying knowledge that I may find

when each person I may meet
a panoply of consequence
will be all things in due time.

© 2018. Sean Green. All Rights Reserved. 20181206.
kokopelle: Black Cat (Cat - Black)
“Tears to the Earth” is another poem about breadth of love across barriers constructed by society.


Tears to the Earth

When sorrow weeps in gulfs too far
between those who are meant to meet
enchantment spurned for decency
by a society that knows not of love
the rules set high are evil's child
when tears could flow for joyous cause

this is my wish for those with chance
to find another dear to their heart
no matter the form the other has
if both consent to the embrace
the world should choose let it be
instead of decrying biology

Procustes would have his say
perhaps he does when some object
only one blueprint will comply
meld the flesh to set way
the bed of iron with options set
this or that, no mix or match

puzzle pieces are thought to fit
only one way to reveal true love
if the box is only picture viable
sadly nature is more complex
tapestry changing as lips touch
gender is second to love's embrace

when passion struggles to find its own
the match of souls have need of more
beyond the sorrows of dogma's text
the path forward must be had
the tears imparted to the earth
should be of joy sprung from love.

© 2017, Sean Green. All Rights Reserved. 20170303.
kokopelle: Frank n Furter (Frank-n-Furter)
I wrote a poem much like “The One I'd Like to Date” before, but I wanted to explore again the concepts of connecting with people. The struggle is real, and the barriers of gender, color, nationality, religion, or age do us no favors. In my latter life I've met an amazing group of people who I would have loved to have dated if I was younger (and still single!!!). This poem is dedicated to all those people who make my world that much more special by connecting to me in the ways we do.


The One I'd Like to Date

You are one I would like to date
though fates will deny it in this place.
The gap that we could bridge by touch
is vast in the eyes of their prejudice.

To date or not is not of consequence
as long as I see the you underneath.
A desire to know you so much more
drives me to say these bold words.

The genders vanish in passion's blush,
the same or different matters not,
plumbing is secondary to us now
when connection is all that really matters.

Colors of skin and nationality,
distractions put aside for humanity's
acknowledgment of a kindred soul
with whom I can fully relate.

Religion bends a dogmatic knee
when the spiritual has ascendancy
to determine the similarities
between you and I and divinity.

Decades spin to singularity
as interests move hearts split by age.
I'd love to dance with anyone
who sees me as an agent of grace.

Life is too short to be separate
by these quirks of circumstance.
Passion's plunge or platonic high,
your world awaits beyond this gulf.

Society would still frown at our touch,
religion chime in for as a second choir,
this does not rob the bells that ring
when I am with you my friend.

© 2016, Sean Green. All Rights Reserved, 20160502.
kokopelle: Frank n Furter (Frank-n-Furter)
It would be great to be friends and associates with EVERYONE. This doesn’t happen. In fact, there will be people who you love and respect, and they won't have anything to do with you. Why? Life. Choices. Circumstance. This doesn’t make them bad, and I hope I'm not bad, but it is something I am asked to respect. I respect the heck out of it, and the poem “Unequally Yoked” is a reflection on this dynamic.


Unequally Yoked

Unequally yoked is our lot
yawning gap of consequence
easily seen when we look.
By religion or generation gap
by skin color or social class
separation is easier than unison.

The elders will approve in turn
when their dogma supports boxes formed
by the high walls of different ones.
These choices are made by my friends
thought not exclusive to my peers
also associates and strangers same.

Some are forced to keep the distance
miles by land and philosophy
from the company of this humble soul.
In the end I'll respect these wishes
desires to not speak to me
these people who must keep their distance.

© 2016, Sean Green. All Rights Reserved, 20160422.
kokopelle: (Cat - Bunny Love)
I wanted to write a poem about the ability of dance to break down the barriers of life. There is the saying, “no plan survives the encounter with the enemy”. The plan of maintaining YOU and THEM is soundly defeated by the social encounter of dancing. The microcosm of dancing opens up new thinking about the larger macrocosm of human relating.


Us as One
Poem for Day 047 – 20150217

Relating is such a challenge,
human nature feeds on distance,
the source is inward I and me,
ego feeding the division.

See the dance as analogy
to the challenge of relating.
Understand one, grasp the other.
From another, frame of reference engaged.

I dance and there is no more them.
We dance and there is only us.
Walls crumble at mutual touch,
microcosm of life expressed.

So I dance, and I then relate.
Understanding dawns at long last.
I relate to you when there are
no boundaries, only us as one.

© 2015. Sean Green. All Rights Reserved
kokopelle: (I Want to Believe)
I find the topic of relationship attachments / relating to be a fascinating one, especially as I have challenges in this area.  Daniel Goleman’s book “Social Intelligence” offers information from the psychologist Phillip Shaver. Shaver says there are three types of attachment. The secure type of attachment is made up of 55 percent of Americans. Securely attached people “see themselves as worth of concern, care and affection, and others as acceptable, reliable, having good intentions toward them”.

The anxious type is made up of 20 percent of Americans. Anxiously attached people are “often angst ridden, they are beset by fears they will be left or found wanting in some way… can be hypervigilant and jealous about imagined dalliances.

Lastly, the avoidant type is made up of 25 percent of Americans. Avoidant people are uncomfortable being emotionally close, finding it hard to trust a partner or share feelings, and getting nervous when their partner seeks to get more emotionally intimate.

I find myself squarely in the avoidant type. I have few of the anxious traits. I have too many of the avoidant traits. I am getting better, moving toward secure, but that’s where I am now. The good news is that I am not a stereotype, and almost nobody should be. Case in point, Shaver says that it was difficult to find avoidant women for a study because of the requirement that they be in a serious long-term romantic relationship. It is noted that few were. I deviate from this in that I started later in life when it came to relationships, but I’ve been in non-stop relationships for the past twenty five years. I suppose my empathic intuitive side mediates the avoidance!

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